Despite all odds

      I do not want anything from you, for I am learning to look beyond you, to love you anyways. I may never be the best, I may never be the only one to care about you, I may never be the best kisser, the smartest, the best in bed, the richest, I may never be the best of anything but one thing I know is that I will be that person who cared about you.

      it doesn’t matter what I can or cannot do, it doesn’t matter what you can or cannot do, for right now, all I wanna make matter is the idea of loving someone in spite of anything. I don’t have to get involved with you, I don’t have to marry you tomorrow, I don’t even have to see you tomorrow, but one thing I ought to do is love you all the same, that’s how we know we are children of God.

      The rules of engagement doesn’t have to be there cos it makes me expect things from you, things that I am looking beyond, just to care about you. I love you in spite of the rules. I love you in spite of what you may think of me or what I may think of you. its not about emotions and feelings, its not about calls or no calls, its not about much, but its about loving you in spite of all these.

       If I never see you, I will still love you, if I never hear from you again, I will still love you. if you wake up to hate me, I will still love you. I may not agree with you, but I will still love you. if my moments come on and off, I will still love you ‘cos I am trying to love you despite all odds, I am trying to love you in spite of anything and there is no shame in doing any of that.

                        My words, my views, my style! Naijagirl©2009

Published in: on April 30, 2009 at 2:49 am  Comments (20)  

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  1. Guess that’s what true love is about — hard nosed pragmatism…. In addition to the butterflies..

  2. Another wonderful post.

    this is deep deep ..

  3. wow

  4. naijagirl oooooooooooooo…hmmmm

  5. You need to copyright that first paragraph before we all nick it and add it to letters to our loved ones..

  6. We may never be everything,but we may as well be something-and yes Ngirl-there’s no shame in loving…
    Nice one!

  7. it’s almost like we’re in similar places right now.
    Love is complicated.. or rather we always seem to complicate it with our complex selves… i wish you well on this journey.

  8. There is definately No shame and you are Brave for wearing your heart on your sleeve. It is courageous!

    I am told everytime “it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”

  9. @Danny…lol, true love you say? you think?
    @BSNC….lol, thanks
    @Taynement….lol, thanks
    @Simeone….yes oooo, lol
    @Roc…lol, hmmm that good huh….food for thot. As long as the writer and recipient knows the origin. thans hon
    @Blog….thanks hon
    @Diamondhawk….love is complicated…..thats a true statement, thanks
    @Gochi….for some weird reason I no too like that statement; I like to see the other side of love and with that I believe its better not to have loved at all, but then again, every experience is a blessing.

  10. you are right; true love should be love “inspite of”… nicely written, weldone…

  11. Deep, deeper than the deep blue sea!!!Loved it girl!!

  12. Talk about true love

  13. i totally agree with you!

  14. Yes o,
    To love despite all odds is it.
    but then, both parties need to give, both parties need to receive.
    this love thing….e get as e be o jare

  15. Love no be small thing o…

    Love covers all odds!

  16. @Doyin…thanks
    @Shona….lol, thanks
    @Rita….true love you say?, uhhh, dont know about that
    @Nice anon…thanks hon
    @Funke….lol, no be small thing ooo, e get as e be
    @Jesus freak….The right kind of love will surely do that; cover sin rather than expose it

  17. Wow!!! …simply wow, that we would all learn (oops, LEARN) to love like this in all our relationships. What a wonderful world ‘twould be.

  18. @rethots….lol, thanks hon. The world would be a better place if we all loved aright.All the frictions and wars would be at a minimum, if not at all

  19. You’ve just expatiated on Shakespeare:

    Love is not love
    Which alters when it alteration finds,
    Or Bends with the remover to remove.
    O, no! It is an ever-fixed mark,
    That looks on tempests and is never shaken

  20. @Ochuko….lol, hmmmm Shakespeare? there’s nothing as powerful as an unconditonal love.

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